My neighbor has invited us to their outdoor celebration of their marriage at their home. They moved into our neighborhood 2 months ago and I do not speak to them very much. They were married in Orlando and are now having the reception at their home. They both have been married before. Is it proper etiquette to take a gift? I would feel wrong going empty handed, but I also don't want to feel obligated to take something. Money is tight and I am not sure if a $20.00 gift certificate or $20.00 cash would be on the appropriate side.
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expertplanner
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Jul 16, 2005, 9:30 AM
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Re: [firebott] wedding gift etiquette
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Dear Firebott:
It is proper ettiquette to send a gift, whether you go to their backyard reception or not. As to the amount of the gift, there isn't any rule that says you should spend $20 on it. The cost of a gift is determined by the giver's relationship to the couple. A gift, check or cash are all acceptable.
If you are trying to be conservative with the cost of the gift, then stick with a pre-wrapped item from your local department store if you can find one. You save on wrapping and the gift this way. If that's not available, maybe you can purchase a item like a picture frame, picture album, a pair of candle holders, etc. Wrap it, or place it in a pretty wedding gift bag. Add a card and you're ready to go.
I hope this helps. Rhonda Allen, Bridal Consultant New Beginnings Weddings
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