Gifts are expected from wedding attendants. The appropriate gifts depends on many factors such as your relationship with the couple and your budget. Choose something based on those factors as well as the personality of the couple. Sometimes the bridal party will pool their money and buy one gift. You might want to ask the other attendants or bridesmaids if they have interest in buying a group gift. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".