My fiancee and I are getting married in Ocho Rios in July. Because we are aware that it is very expensive, we have told our friends and family that they are welcome to come, but we are not sending formal invitations. We don't want people to feel obligated to go and spend the money. Currently, none of our immediate families or friends are planning to attend the wedding. We are however, having a reception upon our return which everyone will attend. My question is that we have several friends ask where we have registered for gifts. But we have already been living together and have everything that we need, so we're not planning on registering at all. What is the most appropriate response? Do you think that it would be ok to suggest ideas (such as cash, dinner gift certificates, entertainment items, etc.? Thank you for your help.
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Re: [indycouple] wedding gifts without a registry
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Dear Indycouple,
If people ask you could inform them that you need nothing and they can decide to give you money or other life style gifts. Most are able to make this decision without prompting. But, expect many not to give anything if you mention money. People are getting a bit overwhelmed with cash gifts these days. Plus, the gift really is supposed to be for the wedding.
wedding gifts without a registry
