My fiance and I want to register for monetary gift cards only; however, I cannot get a straight answer from American Exress or my bank as to getting this accomplished. Any ideas?
And, no this will not go on the invite, I know that is a no-no, but I do want to post it on our website.
Karie
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expertplanner
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Sep 29, 2005, 3:59 PM
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Re: [kariemwarnick] Registering for monetary gifts
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Dear Karie:
What your guests give should be optional and from the heart and not based on you only wanting money. Doing what you suggest here on your wedding website will say negatively that not only are you expecting gifts, but will also imply, intentionally or unintentionally, that if they (guests) don't give money gift cards then you don't want their gifts at all. Rhonda Allen, Bridal Consultant New Beginnings Weddings
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Sep 29, 2005, 3:59 PM
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Dear Karie,
I understand that this is the newest 'thing'. However, it is still viewed by many as greedy and tacky. It is as if you are telling your guests to open their wallets because you decided to get married. Gifts should be the guest's choice and never expected.
Plus, cash is so very difficult to give as a gift. Many people ask me how much to give. There is no perfect amount. Some will think the amount generous while others find it lacking.
Some couples will register for gift cards in varying amounts at stores. This will be on your registry at each store. But, to out and out ask for cash... Maybe it will work for you by word of mouth. This is how we inform people about our registry information. Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now
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