There are going to be ceremony invites, and reception invites, mainly due to the smallness of the beach. I guess I just want to know how to word that it is going to be potluck, yes, potluck. Get over it, we're hippies. And that we don't want gifts, just a donation to our follow the sun piggy bank. Is it even kosher to mention that in the invite? Or is that something to address later? I have a feeling this probably isn't the forum for my style, so if any other ladies have any websites I should check out that would help, let me know.
This is a forum where we give advice based on etiquette. I don't think this sort of advice is what you're looking for and, as you suggest, this is not the forum for you. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".