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Confused with Wording!!

 

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SOINLOVE


Sep 4, 2004, 4:13 PM

Post #1 of 5 (1971 views)
     Confused with Wording!!  

Both of my parents have been remarried. I wasn't sure exactly how I should word the wedding invitations. I don't mind ONLY putting my "real" parents names, and leaving off the step-parents. At the same time, I don't mind their names being on the invitations either. Which is the best way to go about wording the invitations when both parents are remarried??

Nancy Tucker
PRESIDENT - WEDDINGS BEAUTIFUL


Sep 5, 2004, 7:18 AM

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     Re: [SOINLOVE] Confused with Wording!! [In reply to]  

The question I have is who is hosting the wedding?
Nancy Tucker
President of Weddings Beautiful US
http://www.weddingsbeautiful.com

SOINLOVE


Sep 5, 2004, 2:02 PM

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     Re: [Nancy Tucker] Confused with Wording!! [In reply to]  

Who usually hosts the wedding? The bride's mom? If so, that would be my mom. If not, I'm not sure who would/will yet. Thanks for such a quick reply!! Smile

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Sep 5, 2004, 2:14 PM

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     Re: [SOINLOVE] Confused with Wording!! [In reply to]  

Hosting the wedding refers to who is paying. Typically that would be the bride's parents but nowadays the grooms parents and the bride and groom sometimes chip in.
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mannersmith
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Sep 19, 2004, 1:21 PM

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     Re: [SOINLOVE] Confused with Wording!! [In reply to]  

Dear So In Love,

Traditionally, only your birth parents would be listed, mother first, no "and" to join the name.

Mrs. Adam Jeffrey Smith
Mr. Thomas John Jones
request the honor of your presence
at the marriage of their daughter ....

If you want to include the step-parents:

Mr. and Mrs. Adam Jeffery Smith
Mr. and Mrs. Thomas John Jones
request the honor...

Either way, your mother's name goes first.

All the best,
Jodi R R Smith



 
 


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