I sent out my invitations last week. My father paid 95% of my wedding. I listed him on the top line "requesting the honor..." He is hosting the wedding. My mother hasn't offered any money, any help. Now she is very upset, hurt, mad that her name isn't on the invitation. Did I do something wrong? Did I get the wrong advice? I feel terrible. I never meant to hurt anyone. I felt as though I was giving credit where credit is due.
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Apr 1, 2008, 6:28 PM
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Re: [mapnh] Didn't list mother on wedding invitation
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Dear Mapnh,
Although the top line is reserved for the host, it is still old fashioned, traditional etiquette to include the mother of the bride. But, this is a very old rule. With parents not being responsible for their children's weddings, these rules are beginning to appear a bit worn. Perhaps you could explain that you are honoring your father for being so generous at a time when parents are often not contributing at all. Hopefully this will help her understand.
Didn't list mother on wedding invitation
