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How do I include all parents?

 

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teachin1


Dec 12, 2004, 12:01 PM

Post #1 of 3 (1022 views)
     How do I include all parents?  

My parents are divorced. Mom kept her married name and dad has remarried. All parents want to be included on the invitations (I want to include stepmother). Since my parents will be included, FI wants his parents on the invitations as well. Other than my mom paying for the flowers and photographer, FI and I are paying entire wedding. How do I word the invitation including everyone?

Etiquette Now
WEDDING ETIQUETTE EXPERT


Dec 12, 2004, 5:02 PM

Post #2 of 3 (1011 views)
     Re: [teachin1] How do I include all parents? [In reply to]  

Dear How do I include,

Honestly, you do not need to include any of the parents on your invitation because you and your fiance are hosting your wedding. By including your parents names, it is stating that they are hosting your event. But, if this is what you and your fiance want to do, this is how you would say it:

(Ms.) Mom Smith

Mr. and Mrs. Dad Smith

request the honour of your presence

at the marriage of their daughter--your name, to, his name on separate lines

son of

Mr. and Mrs. Fiance's Dad's name, etc.

Congratulations on your up-coming wedding.

Sincerely,
Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now

randysgirl


Dec 13, 2004, 4:54 PM

Post #3 of 3 (996 views)
     Re: [teachin1] How do I include all parents? [In reply to]  

my fiance and i have 3 sets of parents between us and we will all be sharing in the cost of the wedding. we will likely use a wording similar to:

Miss Bride

and

Mr Groom

together with their parents

request the honour.....



this way, we include our parents in the invite, without having too many names.



 
 


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