When I asked my cousion to give me a way he was delighted but thier is several problems at the time he had no girlfriend. The problem is I don't know her and she is his ex sister in law, a old girlfriend whom he dated after his brother died and before, she has a son who has made fun of me and I only met once, I almost would rather ask my uncle to give me away though my cousion lives locally. My uncle however was never thier for me, I'm worried about my cousion wanting his new lady love there with him, as I said I don't know her she was only present once at a funeral , I'm worried he may want her there and mess things up, if I don't invite them he may get angery now, and if I do invite them she will want to sit with the bridal party and the whole family disapproves of her and her son. What should I do? I pretty stumped on this one? It makes it harder because he was just recently mad at me, and I'm finding his attutide has changed since he has been around this lady. He is not a catholic , but I always cared for him deeply, however I don't know if I want his new lady there. Any help appreciate it. Would hurt him now if I ask my uncle instead to give me away he lives to far away and never stays in touch much.
Jill
Psychotherapist: Second Weddings & Stepfamilies
Jan 10, 2005, 9:09 AM
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Re: [MsAngela] Need Advice please About a invitation..
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From what you say it sounds as if you are very found of your cousin and still do want him to give you away. Do you think you could meet up with him and his new girl friend? If you get to know her it could ease the situation. I wonder what makes you feel that she might mess things up? In what way? Jill Curtis Psychotherapist, Author How to Get Married ... Again (A Guide to Second Weddings) London, UK http://www.familyonwards.com
Need Advice please About a invitation..
