Bride’s father had a long term illness and we knew he might not make the wedding. He passed away recently. We worded the invitations in anticipation of this possibility, but we seem to be stuck on some sort of acknowledgement in the program for him. We were going to acknowledge both set of our parents for being married for over 50 years by having their wedding pictures by the guest book, but now it seems a bit odd with the brides father gone. Our service and reception will be fun, outdoors on the grounds of a Victorian home, and a less than a traditional church service. Suggestions for the program notation or other general ideas are appreciated.
Thanks
R & K
Etiquette Now
WEDDING ETIQUETTE EXPERT
Feb 22, 2005, 11:35 AM
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Re: [kim&robert] Notation of deceased father?
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Dear Notation,
It probably would not be a good idea to mention a recently deceased father in the programs unless there is to be a candle lighting or a recital for him during the ceremony. You will be setting a very sad tone for your event.
I'm not sure about the pictures in the program. How will you give a nod to one set of happily married parents without the bride's mother feeling sad about her loss?
Notation of deceased father?
