Sending invites to people who won't bring a guest

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Sending invites to people who won't bring a guest

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FarminRaeRae

May 6, 2008, 2:42 PM

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Sending invites to people who won't bring a guest

Hello again,

We are inviting several, older people who have been single for quite some time now. Even if we are positive they won't bring a guest, should we still send the invitation to Mr. John Doe and Guest? I am just afraid that they would RSVP for two "just in case" and then not bring anyone, which would in turn cause us to pay for meal that won't be eaten. Most of these people are friends of the groom's parents and some older cousins of the bride.

Thanks

(This post was edited by TWQadmin on May 6, 2008, 2:53 PM)

Etiquette Now
WEDDING ETIQUETTE EXPERT / Moderator

May 6, 2008, 3:53 PM

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Re: [FarminRaeRae] Sending invites to people who won't bring a guest [In reply to]

Dear FarminRaeRae,

You are only obligated to allow for an escort if your guest is in a relationship. But, it is nice to allow for one if you have the ability.

Best wishes,
Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now

(This post was edited by Etiquette Now on May 6, 2008, 6:14 PM)

FarminRaeRae

May 7, 2008, 7:31 AM

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Re: [Etiquette Now] Sending invites to people who won't bring a guest [In reply to]

Great! That will help us out a lot. Thanks for the advice. Sly