Please excuse me if you have already responded to this question. I recall reading it before, but now I can't find this thread anymore.
If you are told by a family member certain relatives will not be able to attend your wedding before you send out the invitations, you still send them one right? I think it is impolite not to give guests the choice to decline the invitation.
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