This might be an etiquette question, but our photographer is asking to meet with us to discuss our plans for the wedding and want we want from our photos. He's suggesting meeting for lunch or dinner. Who is expected to pick up the tab at that meeting, or do we each pay our own bills?
Since he suggested meeting over a meal, he should be picking up the tab. But, it may be best to prepare to pay for your own meal. He may not know that he is the host.