Hello We are planning to elope in 1week, no one other than a couple of close friends are going to attend and we have not told anyone else, we have been together for 13yrs, family and friends are very supportive of our relationship.Iam an only daughter and close with my mom,I'm struggling with not telling her or having her make the decision of not being there for herself,although I have spoke with her in the past and she says she is fine with what ever we decide to do.
So should I tell her or not and will I be depriving her if I don't?
If I dont tell her before I was thinking of sending her flowers and a hand written card on the day of and at about the same time of the ceremony What do you think?
Thanks for any input
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