My fiancee approached me the other day with the suggestion that the two of us sing a duet at the reception. I wasn't sure how that would fit into etiquette, although this wedding is very informal and kind of western. We're both interested in music and we sing together occasionally, but we've never sang for anyone else. I'm kinda nervous about it....but also not sure if it as a good idea...I'm looking forward to your expert advice. Thanks.
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expertplanner
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Sep 20, 2005, 9:03 AM
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Dear CB:
If you and your Fiance would like to sing at your wedding reception, that is perfectly fine. Go ahead and have fun! Rhonda Allen, Bridal Consultant New Beginnings Weddings
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Sep 20, 2005, 9:58 AM
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I completely agree. From an etiquette point of view, I say go for it. There really is nothing wrong with entertaining your guests yourself. Well, unless it was me singing :) Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now
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Good point, Rebecca -- although I know you were kidding it woukd be best if the couple had some talent. Perhaps sing a bit for some of the close family and ask their opinion. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
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Should you decide to sing the duet, here are some suggestions that might help ease your nervousness...
1) if you attend church, you might ask if you could sing after the service a few times, to give you an opportunity to be "front and center" and get the experience of singing in front of a group of people. True, one is not supposed to judge, as that's God's court, but ......
2) If you like Karaoke, consider going to some of the clubs that offer this service so you can practice incognito and if you're worried about friends hearing and heckling, go to one that doesn't "know your name".....
3) Be sure and pick a song that is appropriate for your voice levels. If he has a big booming voice and you sing like a mouse, choose one where you sing a portion, and then let him sing a portion. If the wedding is several months away, take a little money from your budget and indulge in a few voice lessons. You'll be amazed at how quickly a voice coach can get you up to par.
4) Worse case scenario, I'm sure you could do better than Milly Vanilly and lip sync the duet. Record the two of you singing the duet where it sounds WONDERFUL, copy to a CD, and have your DJ play for you while you guys act like your belting out the song.
5) Last but not least, if you do sing, be sure your photographer or someone gets a few good photos of your duet. The sound might not be great, but the image will be priceless. Copen Cabana DJ Audio Visual Production providing Custom Wedding Coffee Table Photo Book with DVD Services http://www.knowareland.com
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