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How much to tip the wedding caterer

 

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mccarthyd




Post #1 of 2 (2503 views)
     How much to tip the wedding caterer  

I recently asked my caterer what he recommended for tipping. I was expecting him to say $500 or so on the high end. He however told me that tipping was completely optional, but he said 18% is is considered to be the customary tip for food services in the DC area. Although my fiancée trusts him and thinks he expects about an 18% tip for good service, I think he is trying to make us feel obligated to pay more then what is needed.

We were given an itemized bill for staffing. The bill averaged to be $42 an hour per staff member and three hours were being charged for setup and cleanup.

I do not want to be cheap, but I am already way over budget and cannot afford 18%. What should I do?

Thank you


(This post was edited by TWQadmin on Apr 19, 2007, 6:29 PM)

Nancy Tucker
PRESIDENT - WEDDINGS BEAUTIFUL




Post #2 of 2 (2478 views)
     Re: [mccarthyd] How much to tip the wedding caterer [In reply to]  

He is right on both counts. Tipping is optional and 18% is the average. Many caterer include that amount in their final bill. Since it is optional, do what you feel is fair and reasonable. Please also consider that a tip is for satisfactory and above service.
Nancy Tucker
President of Weddings Beautiful US
http://www.weddingsbeautiful.com and http://www.coordinatorscorner.com



 
 


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