My husband and I were married in Dec 04 & are having a reception in Aug 05. I have already asked a few questions, but have a few more.
1. We decided to have the reception at his mom & dad's house so that we could have the option of alcohol. Lots of people in both of our familes drink, especially on special occasions, and we DO want to have champaigne for our toasts. However, I don't know if I want to have alcohol for everybody to drink because many people from our church will be there and many people in both of our families can get carried away with their drinking. would it be okay just to have a bottle of champaigne for our toasts and forget about alcohol for everybody?
2. If we definately decide to go w/out alcohol, how do we let the family know that it is NOT okay to bring their own/go get some when they are there?
3. I don't get along w/my father and am afraid he will make a scene or be his normal self(rude). My mom won't come w/out him. What do I do?
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Jun 27, 2005, 6:58 PM
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Dear Reception,
If you are offering champagne to some, you would have to offer it to everyone of age. But, you only have to offer one glass for toasting.
Because this is an informal party, you may just write all of this information in your invitation--do not bring alcohol.
This is a common problem. The only thing that I can see that you can do is to hold your ground. Let your mom know that you want her there very much, but he is not invited. This is your choice.
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