My best friend is having a non-formal post wedding party instead of the traditional reception. I am very interested in finding something special to do for her and her fiance for this party. I have seen the slide show/projection idea at other weddings, but I am curious as to what other options I have. This is her first marriage and I want to do something for them that they will remember, yet also has meaning for the two of them as a happy couple.
It really depends on the couple and what they are passionate about. If they are close to their family the idea below might help:
Take the slideshow idea and instead play video from lots of friends talking to the couple sending their special (some funny, some tearful) messages. Since it is their special day they might like hearing from friends and relatives. It's even better if you can possibly get some video from people not able to attend. (Think Jerry McGuire, but nice!)
If the couple loves music, try to get a local musician to step in and perform their favorite song.
At one wedding I attended, several members of the bridal party broke into a rehearsed song. If they are into practical jokes it would be something fitting them.
The ideas are limitless, it all starts with what the couple enjoys. You can't go wrong as long as you have their best interests at heart.
My only suggestion would be that you consult with your friend once you've decided what you'd like to do. Someone throwing a non-traditional party may very well not want any of the traditional bells and whistles. If she does, I'm sure she will appreciate your gesture. Just repect that she's already made on alternative decision and may want to have control over the others. Shayna Walker, Williamsburg Wedding Design http://www.williamsburgweddingdesign.com
I think I am going to discuss the rehearsed song idea with the other people in the bridal party, and hopefully we will come up with a song just perfect for them.