My husband is in the Navy. We got married when we could after he graduated from core school. There wasn't much time to plan and the wedding was 5 hours from our home towns - so we just invited immediate family members. Now we are planning a reception back home. I have a lot of questions on how to go about doing this. We have the proofs back from the photographer and of course I want to have pictures displayed. We do not necessarily want to offer a full meal, just appetizers and cocktails. We have a place reserved - a country club room that holds about 200 people. We have also registered for gifts at a couple places. What is the best way to word invitations? Should this be called a wedding celebration instead of a reception? What would an appropriate time frame be? We were thinking 4 to 8? We do not necessarily want to have dancing, and want it to be pretty informal. More like a meet and greet to be able to talk to friends and other family members that we have not seen or talked to in awhile, plus for some people to get to meet my husband in the first place. Any advice or suggestions is greatly appreciated!
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Re: [gkday26] Reception 3 months after the wedding
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Dear Reception Only,
Because you have pictures, you could include a slide show and play it on a blank wall or screen. This will help the guests feel as if they are more a part of your wedding.
This would still be considered a wedding reception. It really doesn't matter if it has been some time since the wedding. Just include those elements you feel are appropriate to the occasion. If married for some time, I would probably skip the garter toss and first dance. But, you probably are not going to have dancing anyway.
If you want to keep this as just an appetizer and cocktail party, you would have to plan this for a different time. People will want to be fed during the 4-8 pm time period. Beginning at 2pm would be much better.
Registering is appropriate because those who love you, especially family, may want to give you a wedding present. However, gifts are supposed to be given for the wedding. So, please do not be dismayed if you receive few.
There are many posts concerning similar receptions. Please read through them for more ideas.
Reception 3 months after the wedding
