I have a wonderful fiance who loves to dance and is a musician. When he talks about a wedding reception he talks about the music playing and people dancing. He also doesn't drink and we will have a non-alcohol reception.
Now, I don't like to dance, really, although I can do a bit if necessary. The idea of being the Bride at a dancing reception sounds like a bad dream for me. I've also been to many weddings and have yet to have been to a non-alcohol, dancing reception that was a success. So, when I fantasize about my reception I imagine a lovely meal, mingling, maybe a brunch idea. Because this is so important to both of us and I want this to be something we both dream of, what compromises are there? Can I have a dancing reception where the Bride doesn't (or very rarely) dances? I don't want us to spend our reception apart. Is a non-alcohol reception with dancing a good idea? Is it smart to have great music blasting where there's no dance floor? I am stumped and can't think of a creative option.
expertplanner
BRIDAL CONSULTANT
Jan 10, 2007, 5:53 PM
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Re: [pamjlc] Small Reception Dillema with Groom
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If you don't want to dance the whole reception then that is fine. However, remember that a wedding reception is about celebration and dance is a part of that. And, it sounds like your fiance may want to have at least a few. I recommend that you have a dance floor. You may not dance but some guests at your wedding will definitely want to. Have at least a first dance and an after dinner dance. That way, you aren't dancing much, and your fiance is dancing a little. Who knows, you might like it.
As for spending your reception apart, you should be mindful that part of being a gracious bride and groom at your wedding reception is to work the room thanking guests for coming. That may mean you and your fiance are going to be apart at least for a brief period. It is not like you both won't be leaving together:-)
So, plan on making the most out of your wedding reception and don't sweat the small stuff.
Cheers! Rhonda Allen, Bridal Consultant New Beginnings Weddings
Small Reception Dillema with Groom
