My son, his live-in girlfriend, and their one year old son went to Las Vegas this weekend and got married. I would like to throw them a party (reception). Are gifts an issue? How should I word the invitations? Do they register (I don't think they should)? Please help me out!!
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Sep 6, 2005, 5:35 PM
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Re: [jet44] What type of reception for elopement
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Dear Mother of the Groom,
Gifts are typically given for the wedding, not the reception. There should be no gift reference in the invitation. Also, most people don't give gifts to those who elope. Some family may wish to, which is fine. There is no law against it.
It is also best that they not register because it may be viewed as if your party is a vehicle for gift giving--not your intention.
Your invitation should reflect the formality of your party. It can be called a wedding reception. If this is a small affair, you can call your guests or hand write your invitations. Just include all of the information that is pertinent to the party: what it is, when, and where.
What type of reception for elopement
