My question is how can we invite some relatives and not the others to our reception. We are going out of the county to be married and will have the reception when we return. Our original reception plans fell through, we were having the party at a family members home. We now are renting a hall with a sit down dinner and cannot afford to invite all the cousins and their children. How can we invite the ones we want there and not the others and how can we invite the adults only? I will have family members from all over the United States and their children will be there, all of these children are my great nephews and great nieces.