My mother died 10 years ago and I want to remember her in my groom speech but also want to talk about my new step mother who has been married to my dad for the last 18months. I am looking for ideas that will enable me to say the right thing without upsetting my stepmother.
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Weddings by Shayna
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Mar 18, 2008, 10:36 AM
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Re: [Berwick] Including Mother/ Stepmother in groom's speech
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It would be great if you could address the important role that your mother played in your life that brought you to this day, and how you look forward to a future where you and those you love most will be supported and celebrated thanks to the new unions that have taken place (including yours and your father's). Talk about how weddings are among the most important life milestones, and how reflecting on your own wedding day has helped you understand the importance of those around you. With your speech, you can draw an imaginary thread between the woman who gave you life and helped you grow to the growing family with you today, full of the people who will continue to support you and help you develop as you enter this next phase of your life.
As long as you are honest and heartfelt, I imagine your stepmother will be very receptive and accepting. Shayna Walker, Williamsburg Wedding Design http://www.williamsburgweddingdesign.com
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Mar 18, 2008, 2:15 PM
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Excellent advice and I completely agree. We always want to keep our acknowledgements of those who have passed to a minimum, so this is perfect. Rebecca Black, Etiquette Now
Including Mother/ Stepmother in groom's speech
