My mom has given me her wedding ring for me to wear as my own. I had already picked out what I wanted my wedding ring to look like, but now I do not know what to do. This ring is very special because it was her mothers ring also but my parents got divorced and that is the reason I can wear it now. I understand that 3 generations would be able to wear this ring but it makes me uneasy to wear a ring that has been through a divorce. It also is not the ring of my dreams....but my mom is very emotional and I do not want to hurt her feelings yet I do not want to just wear it because of her...it is something I hope to wear the rest of my life. PLEASE HELP
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Your sensitivity touches me. God bless you for caring.
Can you possibly wear the ring on another finger, on a chain or have the diamond remounted? It would be best to gently discuss your feelings with your mom. Perhaps tell her that your groom has already selected a ring for you? I would never advocate lying, but sometimes you have to in order to spare the feelings of a loved one.
This is a tough one - not really a question a stranger can answer well. I'm sorry I couldn't give you more concrete advice.
Whatever you decide, I wish you the best. Top Wedding Questions Forum Moderator - "Write your sorrows in the sand, your blessings in stone".
I also agree with the moderator. Your feelings are understandable. You could also slip a ribbon through the generational ring and tie it around your bouquet. Brides sometimes carry a family bible---one that belonged to mother or grandmother---- with their bouquet, so this would be appropriate. Reverend Susanna Stefanachi Macomb Author of Joining Hands and Hearts, Interfaith, Intercultural Wedding Celebrations, A Practical Guide for Couples
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