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My wedding is not until december 06, however we had a tragic loss in our family. My uncle, who is a police officer, was shot while on duty. A month later my grandfather, who I was very close with and was supposed to walk me down the isle, also passed away. It has been a very rough time for the entire family and I would like to recognize and honor them in someway at my wedding ceremony.
I am also unsure of who, if anyone, I should ask to walk me down the isle. Would it be ok to ask another uncle?

[Wedding Queen and MOG]

I am very sorry for your loss.

You can choose anyone who you feel close with to escort you down the aisle at your wedding or, you could choose to walk alone.

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Memorialize Loved Ones During Your Wedding Ceremony

Weddings are all about love and family. While many believe that a wedding is mainly about the couple and their special day, the wedding ceremony can actually be more of a celebration of the love two people share between them and their families and friends. Unfortunately, many loved ones are lost over the years, and it is perfectly suitable to honor the deceased on your wedding day. There are many ways to remember a deceased family member or friend during your ceremony.

Light a Memorial Candle

Place a table near the altar or front of the church. On it, place a Memorial Candle in tribute to your loved ones. Light the Memorial Candle and ask your officiant to speak a few words about your loved one, including special characteristics about them, and of course how much you wish they were there. Your officiant will be able to offer suggestions for wording this prayer and when to incorporate it into the ceremony.

Light Taper Candles in Memoriam

It is traditional to have one or both parents light the individual tapers for their children before the bride and groom light the Unity Candle. If one or both of your parents is deceased, there are several ways to honor them still. The bride or groom can light the taper themselves and ask the officiant to acknowledge the parents before you light the Unity Candle. You may also use candelabras; having sisters, brothers, or other family members light a candle for each relative that is no longer with you. Include Your Family

Have a special moment in the ceremony when all family members come forward and light candles in memory of loved ones. Or, share a commemorative moment at your wedding ceremony by placing a flower in a memorial bud vase, printed with sentimental words honoring a loved one. Your special keepsake vase can be placed on a mantle or bookcase after the wedding day.

Best Wishes for a happy married life...