[r0xie]

My fiance is in a wedding this weekend (groomsman), its at 7pm. I have chosen a black dress with ivory poka-dots, ( i know you're probably thinking its hidieous) but its really beautiful. i have black heels and plan on wearing a black velvet choker. But i was wondering (this being my 1st wedding,and not knowing whats okay and not okay), if its appropriate to have my hair done professionally, all in curls and have my make up done?

thanks,

one stressed out girl!

[Wedding Queen and MOG]

There's no reason you cannot have your hair and makeup done. As long as your attire isn't matching the bridesmaids and you are not mistaken for a member of the bridal party you're fine.

Your outfit sounds lovely, except that velvet is really a wintery type of fabric. You might want to consider something a bit lighter for the springtime.

[r0xie]

well ive been unable to find anything but velvet, i wanted a black ribbon choker, but i havent had any luck, and ones on the internet wont get here in time for the wedding on saturday.

[Wedding Queen and MOG]

Many website have rush deliver now so if you ordered something tonight you could have it in a day or two, unless you;re outside the US.

Try here:

Black Necklace

I really like the black onyx and the Y necklaces. Very classy withiut having to break the bank.