[MelAnn]

I am at a complete loss as to what to wear for a mid October wedding in Minnesota. The weather can be quite unpredictable, it could be cold and snowy or warm and sunny. The wedding begins with a church ceremony at 3:00 and then a reception/dinner and dance to follow. My boyfriend is in the wedding and will be wearing a black tux. This is also the first time I will be attending one of his family functions and will be meeting most of his relatives for the first time.

I am very unsure of what to wear as I want to be dressed appropriately but want want to be wearing something that I won't freeze in should it be snowing and cold. I also want to give a good first impression to my boyfriend's relatives that I will be meeting for the first time. Please help! What suggestions do you have?

This post has been edited by TWQadmin: 05 September 2025 - 08:56 AM

[Etiquette Now]

Dear Guest,

You would dress as one of the guests and not match the formality of his attire, which is incorrect for a daytime wedding--sorry, had to mention it.

Not knowing the formality of the event besides the tux, I would imagine that a toned down cocktail dress (the little black dress or its equivalent) would be your best bet.

Don't worry about the cold. If it is cold, wear a coat. But, the events will be indoors.

Best wishes,