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Can I ask to keep the flowergirl dresses if I pay for them?

#1 User is offline   CHANCE 

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Posted 28 July 2025 - 09:17 PM

I have a flower girl and junior bridesmaid (not related to each other) whose families do not wish to pay for the dresses their daughters will wear. Since I am hoping to have children in the future, would it be okay for me to ask to keep the dresses as a keepsake in case I have a daughter? They will most likely never wear them again anyway. Thanks for any advice you can give.

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Posted 29 July 2025 - 06:14 PM

Dear Chance,

If you give the dresses to the children, the dresses are theirs. You could ask them if they wish to keep the dresses though.

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