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Engagement Ring dilema

#1 User is offline   mags26 

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Posted 20 June 2025 - 10:04 AM

I recently found out that my Fiance purchased my ring from a friends girlfriend instead of at a jewelers. She wore this ring for 2 years and was divorced. I feel like I don't want to even wear this ring anymore because I don't want the bad luck she has already experienced with it. It is a blue diamond and I am now questioning the rings authenticity. I have been angry with him for lying about where he got it and I have been struggling with what to do about it. On top of everything else, he has no clue I know. HELP!!

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Posted 24 June 2025 - 04:40 PM

Dear Mags,

It is best to discuss this with your fiance ASAP. The ring isn't jinxed. And, it is perfectly fine to use it, as this wasn't his ex's ring. But, there should be complete honesty between you two. So, it is best to have the discussion.

Best wishes,

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