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Wedding Gratuity for Caterer and Serving Staff

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Posted 24 August 2025 - 12:11 PM

My caterer is providing the kitchen staff and servers. The chef's are getting $25 per hour (10 hours) and the wait staff is getting $18 per hour (10 hours). On my proposal there is no amount listed for gratuity or service charge. The per hour rates seems generous but should additional gratuity be added?

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Posted 24 August 2025 - 05:21 PM

Dear Mcarbin,

Gratuity is optional and unnecessary. But, if you feel they offered service above and beyond, then you could give them a tip. It is your choice.

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