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my fiances twin brother and sister will be 11 or 12 when we have our wedding, and i wanted to make his sister a junior bridesmaid, but his little brother is mentally hanicapped. he can be a good kid when he wants to be, its just i'm not sure how he'd react to walking down the isle with his sister being a junior groomsmen... also, if i opt to not have him in the wedding, would it be rude to still have his sister?