Young son's participation in wedding ceremony

#1 momcare1

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Posted 08 April 2025 - 09:04 AM

I have an eight-year-old son. My dad and son are walking me down the aisle. I would like him to participate more than that in the ceremony. He is well behaved and has a wonderful relationship with the groom. What more could he do?

This post has been edited by TWQadmin: 08 April 2025 - 09:31 AM

#2 Wedding Queen and MOG

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Posted 08 April 2025 - 09:35 AM

He could do a reading (appropriate for his reading level) or participate in the Unity Candle Ceremony It's a nice way to encourage blending of family. Kids really seem to like it. if you're worried about children handling fire then there is a sand ceremony that would be nice too.

Best Wishes,

#3 RevSusanna

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Posted 08 April 2025 - 10:05 AM

Excellent suggestions by the forum moderator!

You may also ask your officiant to bless you as a family as he stands by your side.

You may present him with a special keepsake of the day.

You may include a vow of your love and commitment to him.

These are all things that tell the child, both in words and ritual: We love you. We will always love you and include you. We are a family. You matter very much.

Blessings!

Rev. Susanna