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I have a small "flower" girl that will be holding my train as I walk down the aisle, and a 9 year old dropping the flowers. It was short notice and now with only 5 weeks left, it's too late to order the same dress for each of them. Does it really matter?
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Do the flower girl's dresses have to match?
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Posted 04 January 2026 - 10:21 AM
You can just coordinate the dresses, and both girls will look lovely! Since there is an obvious age difference between the girls, the dress shouldn't be the same style, just coordinate color and accessories, and you will create a lovely pair that your guests will admire! Enjoy the wedding!
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Posted 04 January 2026 - 01:50 PM
I agree--no etiquette problems here. :)
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Posted 04 January 2026 - 04:33 PM
I love the idea of the girls not matching! Don't think a thing about it as long as they coordinate!
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