[stanwelks]

I'm the groom and getting married next month. I'm thinking about not walking down the aisle, and instead waiting at the front with the rabbi while the groomsmen, bridesmaid, and my bride come to me.

Just curious to hear what your thoughts are on this?

Thanks.

[Wedding Queen and MOG]

I'm not certain about the Jewish wedding tradition, but in Christian churches the groom never walks down the aisle.

[Nancy Tucker]

It is a tradition for the groom's parents to walk him down the aisle just before the bride and her parents. I would check with your Rabbi...he is the one to make that decision. The clergy always has the final word on the ceremony.

[Etiquette Now]

I agree that the Rabbi would have to be on board with you standing with him. It might be an insult to your parents too. If your Rabbi agrees, I'd suggest talking to your parents about it as well before making your final decision.

[Jacqueline]

As a planner, I constantly talk about the Groom and the vision for his wedding. In saying this, I understand your desire to stand in front versus walk down the aisle, but there are things to be considered. As the other experts mentioned, if you are having a Jewish ceremony you should consult with your Rabbi and parents to ensure that they are in agreement with you. Some ceremony traditions will not allow for alterations.