[marryingbestfriend]

My fiance doesn't have too many friends, but he still felt obligated to invite some of them for future business relationships/reasons. When he was reading his list to me, 4 names were of girls that he became quite close with during his college years. Having female friends is fine, but I have a slight issue with having 2 of them at my wedding. While we were dating, one of the girls would always blow kisses at my guy and constantly post on Facebook about how she missed him.The other girl would always come up to my guy and squeeze him around the waist, then look me up and down without even saying a word. The two of them are also still flirting with him even when I'm standing there with him. Maybe it's my insecurity, but it makes me uncomfortable to know that those two girls will be at my wedding reception. Am i being unreasonable? Or is it okay for me to be a little upset about having two flirtatious girls (who don't like me)around me all day long?

[Etiquette Guy]

Dear MBF,
Thanks for asking this very good question. Your feelings are valid - always! If you have an issue with anyone on the guest list for whatever the reason, you are entitled to have a civil discussion about it. I imagine your fiance will be very understanding. I hope he is. There will bigger challenges as life goes on. I hope this helps. May you have many happy years together!

[Wedding Queen and MOG]

Yes, you're well within your right to discuss these friends with your future husband. You should both feel comfortable with the guests attending and witnessing such a private and personal event.

Having these sorts of discussions are key to learning about each other both before and after marriage. Relationships are all about learning, growing and deciding as a couple.

[Etiquette Now]

I agree. This is definitely something that should be discussed. And, you are not being unreasonable at all.